It’s your ability to pay attention to her in unexpected ways — at unexpected times — because it’s genuinely in your heart to do it.
Of course, thoughtfulness means delivering attention and interest…but in heartfelt ways that she can’t predict, at the times she needs it most.
Make her laugh with smart, observational comments instead of put-down jokes.
Got a feeling that the man you're dating is testing you? We grilled guys for the (sometimes ridiculous but totally true) dating tests they give women to determine their compatibility!
Every first date ends with a woman asking herself just one question: Is there any chance that you might be boyfriend material?
Plan a wonderful evening, then guide a woman through it from start to finish.
Replace the nervous chatter and insecure comments with real conversation — asking what you want to know about her straight out.
When it comes to first dates, most guys waste precious time and opportunities with great women by not actually “being there” at all.
As they sit across the table from a woman, most guys are busy planning, worrying about what to say and do next or worse — just not being interested. Until a man is confident and comfortable enough to be totally “present,” he’ll never connect with a woman in the moment, let alone for the future. It will be painfully obvious that he’s not hearing or caring about what she has to say. I know what you’re thinking…and you’re totally wrong.Basically, instead of being over the top with flashy gifts, expensive dinners, and obvious compliments, true thoughtfulness is telling her that you were thinking of her today when she wasn’t around(by the way…if you’re thinking about her when she’s not around, don’t waste her time trying to become her boyfriend). Any high-wire artist will tell you that success is a delicate balancing act.#2: The longer I continued to fail these tests, the more I started to feel like something wonderful was missing from my life — also known as having a great GIRLFRIEND.That in mind, here come the three secret “tests” that every woman uses (even if she doesn’t realize it) to determine whether you are boyfriend material: Test #1: Are You Present?For example, I always say that confidence and humor go a long way toward succeeding with women, but too many guys act like a “jerk,” coming across as unfunny, insulting or arrogant.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating